Build, Destroy, Build Again!

As mentioned on my podcast this week, my son and I spend a great deal of time each day playing Angry Birds… but not on an iPhone or iPad… but with real birds and pigs and blocks, and I might mention they are Star Wars themed too!

We take turns building towers and placing our pigs, and then trying to knock them down with the birds via the little sling shots.

There is a bit of strategy to how we build, but for the most part you are building something you know is going to be destroyed.

So while we may spend a great deal of care and creativity building, we can’t get too attached to our masterpieces knowing the whole point of the building, was to knock them down! We have to remember the real joy isn’t in the building, it is in the playing together. In fact, the whole point of the game isn’t what we build or even the shooting of birds to knock it down – it is Daddy-Son time. At the end, when the floor is a mess, it is a sign that we had a great time.

It’s kinda like kidmin. It reminds me of the effort and energy we put into building our ministries and how frustrated we can get when people mess with what we are trying to build, or when we watch what we’ve built be torn down by others or messed up, or become ruins after we leave a ministry. We must never forget – it was never about the building in the first place! It was never about creating great programs or even running great programs… It was simply about the relationships at the time, the kids, the volunteers and the parents.

So when you see things get knocked over, or find yourself needing to build all over again. Smile.

And remember, it’s all about the people and the relationships. The building is just what keeps us busy and brings everyone together.

Enjoy Darth Dad vs. Son Luke:


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  1. Thanks Karl. That’s exactly what I needed to hear. Too often I’ve been discouraged when everything I’ve been building seems to get knocked down. It’s good to be reminded of this. Thank you, God bless.

  2. Thanks for that reminder, Karl. I needed to hear that.

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