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Kidmin Covenant #6: Character Matters

Order the New Kidmin Covenant Reflective Guide, companion to the Kidmin Covenant series. Let’s be real — ministry can be exhausting. It’s easy to slip into survival mode, chasing tasks and putting out fires. That’s why I created this covenant — not to add more pressure, but to anchor myself in what matters most. These commitments help me focus, refuel, and realign. They remind me that before I lead others well, I have to walk closely with Jesus. Inward health leads to outward fruit. Covenant Commitment #6: I will be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. If there’s a verse that should be framed in every children’s ministry office, it’s James 1:19: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” In the chaos of check-in, the miscommunication with a volunteer, the challenging child who tests your patience, or the well-meaning parent with lots of “suggestions,” this verse is a lifeline. Listening is more than a ministry skill — it’s a spiritual posture. When we slow down to really hear others, we reflect the heart of Jesus. He didn’t rush conversations. He wasn’t quick to interrupt. He had compassion because…

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The Influence of a Child: How an 11-Year-Old Girl Helped Shape a President

As a kids pastor, I often reflect on the profound impact children can have on the world around them. Recently, I discovered a story that beautifully illustrates this truth—a tale involving none other than Abraham Lincoln. A Personal Connection While Abraham Lincoln has no direct living descendants, my father-in-law was a descendant of the Hanks family, Mary Todd Lincoln’s lineage. Standing tall and bearing a striking resemblance to Honest Abe, he often donned the iconic stovepipe hat, embodying Lincoln’s spirit. Yet, it wasn’t until a friend shared this particular story with me that I realized the depth of influence a single child can wield. The Letter That Changed History In October 1860, 11-year-old Grace Bedell from Westfield, New York, penned a letter to presidential candidate Abraham Lincoln. Having seen his campaign portrait, she believed he would look better with a beard and suggested that growing one might help him win more votes, especially from women who would then persuade their husbands to support him. Dear Sir, (she wrote)  … I am a little girl only 11 years old, but want you should be President of the United States very much so I hope you wont think me very bold to…

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Kidmin Covenant #5: The Supremacy of the Bible

Order the New Kidmin Covenant Reflective Guide, companion to the Kidmin Covenant series. Ministry isn’t just what I do—it’s who I’m becoming. As I guide children in their faith journey, I must also guard my own heart. This covenant isn’t a checklist; it’s a shepherd’s commitment to walk closely with Jesus so that every lesson, every conversation, and every act of service flows from a life shaped by Him. I want to be inwardly healthy so I can be outwardly fruitful in all I do. Covenant Commitment #5: I will teach from and with a Bible so my students know and see the source of my teaching. We live in a digital world, and it’s easy to rely on screens, props, or creative visuals in children’s ministry. While those tools can be incredibly helpful, there’s one tool that should never be left behind: your physical Bible. Holding the Bible in your hands when you teach—even if the verses are also on a screen or in your notes—sends a powerful message to the kids: “What I’m teaching doesn’t come from me—it comes from here.” You are modeling reverence for Scripture just by having it visible and central. In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, God says, “These commandments…

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Kidmin Covenant #4: A Relational Life Focus

Order the New Kidmin Covenant Reflective Guide, companion to the Kidmin Covenant series. If I could sit across from a new children’s ministry leader and offer one piece of advice, it would be this: take care of your soul. Ministry isn’t sustained by talent, strategy, or passion alone. It’s sustained by the quiet, consistent work of walking with Jesus. These 12 commitments are born out of that truth. They help me stay inwardly healthy so I can lead with lasting impact. Covenant Commitment #4: I will reach out relationally each day to at least one friend, relative or volunteer to encourage them so people are always put first. Ministry isn’t just about tasks—it’s about people. And the longer you serve, the easier it becomes to focus on checklists instead of connections. But behind every event, every lesson, and every role is a person made in God’s image who needs encouragement, support, and care. Hebrews 10:24 tells us, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”Encouragement isn’t accidental—it’s intentional. It requires thought. And it’s often the simplest words that carry the most impact. When you pause each day to reach out to just one…

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Ministry Needs More Hawaiian Hippos

Stand Out for Jesus!   Let’s face it—ministry can sometimes start to feel like a slow-moving hippo, just plodding along week after week. Same lessons. Same snacks. Same games. You love the kids, but deep down you wonder: Is this really making an impact? Now picture that hippo again… but this time, he’s rocking a loud, colorful Hawaiian shirt. Suddenly, he’s not just blending in—he’s standing out. He’s turning heads. He’s getting noticed. And not for vanity’s sake, but because he’s embracing something different. That’s what we need in children’s ministry. It’s easy to look at what other churches are doing and feel pressure to follow the crowd. But God didn’t call you to be a copy of someone else’s ministry—He called you to be creative, courageous, and bold right where you are. “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.” — Romans 12:11 (NIV) Zeal doesn’t come from playing it safe. It comes from trusting God enough to try something new—even if it’s a little crazy. Host a cereal buffet. Turn your sanctuary into a jungle. Dress up like a time-traveling Bible character. Yes, some ideas may flop—but they’ll still create energy. And energy…

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